TooTrue

"People Would Rather Live A Lie Than To Know The Truth To Avoid The Pain"

All women suspect that men are dogs, well its true. We are dogs when you first meet us. Women think men are suppose to be faithful and loyal to them and only them soon as we begin to converse. Women tie there feelings into one person while men way out there options. Its not that a man doesn't feel for you, he's just being a man, thinking with his other head than his brain. Men eaisly lose focus soon as a good looking woman passes there way. If a woman wants a good man and you want him to stay a good man, it takes work. You have to show him what you are worth, show him he needs to appreciate you, show him he's not better off without you. But doing all this a woman is going to hurt, cry, and go through the pain, most important they're gonna have to be patient. No man is gonna "act right" overnight its take time. Like I said in the beginning a man gone be a dog, but a dog can be trained...

Money, the so called root to all evil, yes it may be true but it is needed in todays times. Just think about it, you cant do anything without money, you cant even breath without it, literally. Everything we do in life has to do with money, what we do, who we hang around, whats involved with our lives, all has to do with money. Just think about it, the reason we go to school, or even the reason our parents wants us to go school is to make some money, be successful. Some people may feed a lie saying "oh im just going to get a education" thats a lie. Being educated is good, but i know many people who would rather just wake up rich. Everyone is lazy, nobody wants to get up and go to work, or even go to school, they do it because they have to or need to. The people we hang around our "friends", they were attracted to you by the lifestyle you were living, the way you dressed, carried yourself, even the car you drive. People with money don't normally hang out with people who are broke, its not that they think they're better than them, its just there lifestyles are totally different and they have nothing to relate to. The people you date, meet, encounter with all have to do with money. They say money doesn't buy love, yes it do. Because the person you were attracted to used some type of money to buy the clothes you were attracted to, the fragrance you were attracted to, the way they were carrying themselves. Even something as simple as buying you a drink to initiate the conversation cost money. Many reasons why marriages don't last is financial problems, when they first met it was all about love, but it seems money will come between that.  Families even separate from each other because somebody or someone in there family may feel jealous of how somebody is living or how well there doing in life.  Theres no way you can live without money its needed in these times, if you don't believe me, i want you to stop using money period. They say money doesn't buy happiness but your real sad when your broke.

Everyone has a dream to be somebody or go somewhere, many people don't achieve this dream because obstacles in life get in the away from achieving these dreams. Things such as financial stability, pregnancies, environments, family households, etc. These happen to be many reasons alot people don't get the chance to do what they intended to do growing up. But life is suppose to be hard, the understanding of this is unexplainable. When trying to succeed in whatever your trying to do gets hard, you tend to want to give up because you don't think you can continue with your journey. But the people around you give you a boost to make you keep going, whether is your parents, family and friends that tell you its all gonna pay off in the end, or someone that's been having doubt in you the whole time and you just want to prove them wrong, you keep going. If you have it in you, nothing can stop you from doing what you want, you just have it in your heart, like the saying goes "only the strong survive" 

It seems like everyone is on the pursuit of happiness, but why is it so hard to achieve this. Why does life throw so many problems at you to keep you down and from achieving this? Well the pursuit of happiness relies on the people around you. If someone around u hurts you then your gonna be sad, if someone around you makes u happy then your gonna be happy. People may say there happy with being by themselves, but in reality no one wants to be alone. People need other people to live a life of ups and downs, without each other there's only depression. Finding happiness is described as a place without any problems and where u don't have to worry about anything. Its something more than being rich, its something more than finding the one you love, its almost nearly impossible because there's always gonna be something wrong. But what can you do about this? Nothing. Its just life.

Many people see a lot of unhappy couples or marriages and wonder why did the male or female put themselves in that position. Well its so hard to find somebody you truly and honestly want to be with and only be with. So they just settle so they wont end up by themselves and alone. It seems as life gives you some of the things you want in a person, and the rest you have to work with, and make the best of it. The hardest thing for people to understand in relationships is that nothing is going to be perfect, and once they learn to accept that, they will be happier with each other. But everyone is looking for that "perfect" someone, and it doesn't exist.

Life is very hard to understand sometimes, a lot of people wonder why things go the way they do. Everything in life has to balance, good with the bad, right with the left, wrong with the right, etc. Without balance in this world, there would be chaos. People always ask for a crime free world and everything to be good all the time, when they fail to realize is without the bad times there wouldn't be a good times. Things have to go wrong in order for something to go right. Just like the phrase "what goes around comes around",only means whatever you did before has to balance out in your future. Its seems as if life is only a cycle that repeats its self from the day you were born until death. 

What is the thing about about a good morning text that makes girls feel like there boyfriend is thinking about them 24/7. Well truth is, guys really don't think about there girl every hour on the hour, they may say they do, but most of the time there lying. Women are very emotional, therefore they feel that a good morning text makes them feel like she's the first thing on his mind when he wakes up, but in reality he's just sending that text because it makes her happy. If it was up to a guy to send a text it would be at night, because that's when his hormones are up and that's when she's really on his mind.

A lot of women wonder why relationships don't last or why men cheat on them. Like i always say "what you want do another will". This simply means men tend to find less interest in a woman after a while, so therefore he looks for something new. The way to keep a man is too stay looking good, and pleasure him in the best ways you can. Men don't really care about the sweet things you tell him, the main thing that keeps him around is the physical attraction. When a woman is always looking good a man will never want to lose her or let go. Simply because men don't want to see his girl with another man, its all just an ego thing. Also a man wants to feel powerful, this is mostly done in the bedroom. If a woman makes a man feel like he's the king in the sheets, he will never stop having sex with her because its all mental games with a man when it comes to sex. This works opposite with woman because woman have to actually feel the physical things in the bedroom. Telling her nasty things while having sex doesn't work the same way for women as it does for men.

Men wonder why women cheat on them and do them wrong. This reason could be many reasons because woman are difficult and they never know what they actually want. Women always say that they want to know the truth always, when in reality they don't. For instance, when a man first sees a girl in the club or anywhere the first thing that comes to his mind is i would love to have sex with her. Not that i want her to be my girlfriend or i can see her as being my future wife they only see sexual attraction. But a man is not going to walk up on a girl and tell her that. The only thing he's thinking in his mind is to lie, and that's what a woman wants to hear; a bunch of lies. He has to tell her his name, occupation, what he likes to do, etc. Then find out a bunch of stuff about her that he really doesn't want to hear. But this all just a process to get what he wants. Men don't start catching feelings for a woman till after sex, before then its just straight lies and running game. To keep a woman from not cheating on him takes a process. The first process is to show her that he is sweet. This is done by telling her things that she want to hear, and doing things that she asks. 2nd process would be to show her that she is the only woman in his life and no one can take her spot in his life. Last process is to give her the best sex that no one else can give her. A woman can not be a bigger freak than her man, it just wont work out.